{"id":2815,"date":"2016-10-24T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2016-10-24T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/?p=2815"},"modified":"2024-12-24T17:59:27","modified_gmt":"2024-12-24T17:59:27","slug":"moving-out-of-parents-house","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/moving-out-of-parents-house\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding a&#8230; place to live"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/empty-nesters.jpg?resize=580%2C331\" alt=\"Basic CMYK\" width=\"580\" height=\"331\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2816\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/empty-nesters.jpg?w=2480&amp;ssl=1 2480w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/empty-nesters.jpg?resize=400%2C229&amp;ssl=1 400w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/empty-nesters.jpg?resize=768%2C439&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/empty-nesters.jpg?resize=1024%2C585&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/empty-nesters.jpg?resize=1200%2C686&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/empty-nesters.jpg?w=1740&amp;ssl=1 1740w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 580px) 100vw, 580px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>Parents, I&#8217;ll take a vacation&#8230; from you \ud83d\ude1c<\/h3>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m an introvert. Life is great inside my personal bubble. But I know the magic happens outside the comfort zone. So once in a while I challenge myself. This time I decided to leave my parents&#8217; house and live on my own for at least one month.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>It&#8217;s scientifically proven that dishes and clothes have one thing in common \u2014 they do not wash themselves.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>After <a href=\"https:\/\/pt.linkedin.com\/in\/nunesdiogo\">I changed jobs<\/a>, I was spending once again about 3 hours a day on commuting. Do you recall my previous post <a href=\"http:\/\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/get-together-get-efficient\/\">&#8220;Get Efficient, Get Together&#8221;<\/a>? Work, gym, shops and services, all were <em>together<\/em>&#8230; except home.<\/p>\n<p>It took a month and dozens of renting websites to find the room I was looking for. It&#8217;s exhausting <strong>finding the balance<\/strong> between:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Location<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Price<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Quality<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Amenities &amp; Furniture<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Number of roommates<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Room vs Apartment<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And this is the time you&#8217;ll hate being a guy &#8212; yup, some listings just refuse to accept male guests. Now I know how gender discrimination feels like.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>So you&#8217;re telling me that when I get home &#8212; besides worrying about cooking my dinner &#8212; I have to check the pH of the fishes&#8217; water?<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Oh, and some houses include pets. Apparently those owners prefer to outsource that responsibility to strangers. I saw descriptions like &#8220;includes sociable Labrador&#8221;, &#8220;family cat&#8221;, or even &#8220;fish tank&#8221;! It&#8217;s amazing how people transform disadvantages into marvellous features of the house.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Anyway, I&#8217;m living the dream again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/bubble.jpg?resize=580%2C308\" alt=\"Bubble about to explode by a needle\" width=\"580\" height=\"308\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2818\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/bubble.jpg?w=1900&amp;ssl=1 1900w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/bubble.jpg?resize=400%2C212&amp;ssl=1 400w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/bubble.jpg?resize=768%2C408&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/bubble.jpg?resize=1024%2C544&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/bubble.jpg?resize=1200%2C637&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/bubble.jpg?w=1740&amp;ssl=1 1740w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 580px) 100vw, 580px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>But it started as a nightmare.<\/h3>\n<p>I couldn&#8217;t sleep on my first night, too much anxiety. During my childhood my room became my safehold and an extension of my personality. Having that removed and replaced by a little room, in a random place, with random people around&#8230; was like placing my personal bubble over a bed of nails. And I reckon this is a &#8220;first world problem&#8221;, that makes me look like a spoiled kid. Still, it hurts.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>When you take a vaccine you&#8217;re exposing your body to a small and controlled dose of illness. It hurts at the time, and you may even cry. However, in the long term you will be more resilient.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>This will probably <strong>happen to you<\/strong>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Discover that dishes and clothes do not wash themselves.<\/li>\n<li>Be even more grateful for the <em>backstage work<\/em> your parents do for you.<\/li>\n<li>After a certain hour, your brain starts thinking in the background &#8220;what will I cook for dinner? And HOW?&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>You eat less, but you savour each mouthful. After all, it&#8217;s your work.<\/li>\n<li>Even an expert in tech freezes when he\/she uses a washing machine for the first time.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>tl;dr<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Challenge yourself out of the comfort zone.<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Bite your tongue&#8221;, embrace it and endure it.<\/li>\n<li>Those achievements will strengthen your confidence.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>When did you moved out of your parent&#8217;s house? 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