{"id":2219,"date":"2015-05-04T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2015-05-04T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/?p=2219"},"modified":"2020-05-15T14:23:49","modified_gmt":"2020-05-15T13:23:49","slug":"one-direction-encourages-violence-during-courtship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/one-direction-encourages-violence-during-courtship\/","title":{"rendered":"One Direction encourages violence during courtship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.diogonunes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/f6bb4430-3e6e-11e4-95e5-2335a8db090b_bestface.gif?resize=500%2C264\" alt=\"f6bb4430-3e6e-11e4-95e5-2335a8db090b_bestface\" width=\"500\" height=\"264\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2221\" \/><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Have you heard their song &#8220;Steal My Girl&#8221;? The video clip was directed by Danny DeVito and summed up 118 million views in six months. PETA already <a href=\"http:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/arts-entertainment\/music\/news\/one-direction-criticised-by-peta-for-using-chimp-trainer-with-history-of-abuse-in-new-steal-my-girl-video-9815560.html\">criticized the band for using a chimp trainer with &#8220;history of animal abuse&#8221;<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Well, that&#8217;s just the beginning of the abuse. Listen to the lyrics:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Find another one &#8217;cause she belongs to me<br \/>\n  I don&#8217;t exist if I don&#8217;t have her<br \/>\n  She knows, she knows<br \/>\n  That I&#8217;m never gonna let another take her love from me now<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>That&#8217;s not subliminal, that&#8217;s as explicit as it gets. That&#8217;s treating a human being as a thing, your greatest love as a possession. And in that last sentence they reveal <strong>the darkness of their heart<\/strong>, when they openly refer the fear and psychological repression in this relationship.<\/p>\n<p>The video has 1.5 million likes, which means up to 1.5 million couples worldwide find One Direction&#8217;s aggressive words enjoyable or even agreeable. <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/HReySt8AMmI\">Singing a dreadful lyric just makes it more pleasant to the ear<\/a>, however it doesn&#8217;t excuse the message.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Everything Sounds Nicer - Studio C\" width=\"580\" height=\"326\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/jQnmQuK_SNQ?start=33&#038;feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3>Why so serious?<\/h3>\n<p>Boys desire girls. So if girls worship One Direction, boys will look up to them &#8212; dress like them, think like them. Girls set the trends and make the &#8220;market&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>You and I can&#8217;t let One Direction&#8217;s message get across unharmed, otherwise sentences like &#8220;she belongs to me&#8221; will become mundane and frequent. Eventually our brains stop noticing what we say and what we do, and it becomes an instinct. Prejudice works the same way.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Desensitization is defined as the diminished emotional responsiveness to a negative or aversive stimulus after repeated exposure to it. <cite><a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Desensitization_%28psychology%29\">Wiki<\/a><\/cite><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Portugal has increasing rates of marital homicide, between <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sol.pt\/noticia\/386425\">30 to 50 deaths per year<\/a>. In my opinion, killing the person you <em>supposedly<\/em> love the most in the world, just because it doesn&#8217;t behave like a pet or an object, is the most sickening and coward crime of all.<\/p>\n<p>In 2013, a <a href=\"http:\/\/p3.publico.pt\/actualidade\/sociedade\/6639\/violencia-no-namoro-sao-poucos-os-jovens-que-apresentam-queixa\">national study<\/a> interviewed more than 4500 young people aged between 13 and 29 years. Over 25% admitted he\/she was a victim at least once during the previous year and almost 31% confessed to have abusive behavior towards his\/her mate.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>The average teenager doesn&#8217;t think of jealousy and control as an aggressive behavior. They think it&#8217;s a display of love. <cite><a href=\"http:\/\/www.noticiasmagazine.pt\/2014\/namorar-nao-e-controlar\/\">APAV<\/a><\/cite><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>That&#8217;s the most worrying part &#8212; these <strong>young people tolerate their mates&#8217; abusive behavior<\/strong>. Thus they will never free themselves from their <del>soul mates<\/del> aggressors. And as time goes by, they&#8217;ll marry, sacrifice their happiness, eventually (literally) sacrificing their life, and subject their children to the same abuse. <code>#truestory<\/code><\/p>\n<p>Therefore, Portugal started this year a campaign named <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cig.gov.pt\/campanhas\/campanha-contra-a-violencia-no-namoro-quem-te-ama-nao-te-agride\/\">&#8220;Love with fair play, Who loves you doesn&#8217;t hurt you&#8221;<\/a> to get some common sense shared across these young and naive minds.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Quem Te Ama Nao Te Agride\" width=\"580\" height=\"326\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/CxeTVQFURxA?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>My advice is simple: at the first occurrence of any of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.apavparajovens.pt\/pt\/go\/o-que-e1\">these behaviors<\/a>, let your friends and family know the real face of the aggressor, and <strong>walk away without hesitating for a moment<\/strong>. One doesn&#8217;t hurt by mistake, there&#8217;s no possible excuse. If you start to get stalked or threatened, report it the police and let them handle it. If they don&#8217;t, do whatever it takes to take back your life, which is much more valuable than his\/her.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2221,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[39],"tags":[32],"class_list":["post-2219","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-thoughts","tag-relationships"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>One Direction encourages violence during courtship - The Geeky Gecko<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Have you noticed &quot;Steal My Girl&quot; lyrics? They&#039;re as explicit as it gets. The average teenager doesn&#039;t think of jealousy as an aggressive behavior. 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